A little respect
goes a long way.
Lovebringers is built around friendship, kindness, and meaningful connections. These rules help us keep our community welcoming and safe for everyone.
18+ Only Server
WARNING! 18+ ONLY SERVER! If you are found to be underage you will be removed immediately. Rules may be updated regularly.
Server Rules
The Golden Rule.
Foster a welcoming community by treating others with respect and consideration. Our server thrives when members engage with empathy and kindness. Prohibited behaviors include spreading rumors/misinformation, excessive complaining outside designated channels, threats of self-harm/suicide, and dog piling (when multiple members target an individual). If someone's behavior makes you uncomfortable, you have every right to politely request they stop. Should they persist or deliberately make you feel unwelcome, please contact the MogBot or in case of an emergency, use the @moderator ping.
Respect server moderation.
Our administrative team works diligently to ensure a positive experience for all members. Honor staff decisions promptly when asked to adjust behavior or move discussions to appropriate channels. Refrain from public arguments with staff, harassment, or threats. Direct questions or reports about server issues/information, timeouts, warnings, or bans to the MogBot only unless system issues occur. Do not DM staff unless the bots are down. The mod team addresses all concerns based on evidence rather than accusations, handling each situation with care and attention to detail.
No spam/advertising/RMT.
Maintain conversation quality by avoiding disruptive patterns such as repeated messages, image spam, or excessive emoji use. Repeatedly joining and leaving the server without explanation may be considered spam behavior. Do not advertise or ask for money, items, or services, and refrain from Discord or FC recruitment or event advertising without prior approval from moderators. Exercise caution with suspicious links or images by alerting staff immediately. While discussing Real Money Trading (RMT) is permitted, promoting or encouraging it violates Final Fantasy XIV's Terms of Service and is prohibited.
No bigotry, harassment, trolling, or toxic behavior.
We maintain zero tolerance for discriminatory language, violence, sexism, harassment, bullying, direct callouts, or vagueposting. Every member deserves dignity and respect both within server channels and in private communications. If you witness or experience such behavior, please document evidence and contact the MogBot immediately. All server rules apply equally to voice channels, with misconduct being reportable.
Respect DM preferences.
Personal boundaries matter. Members with the "Ask to DM" tag have explicitly requested permission before receiving direct messages. Always seek consent in the lets-do-something channel before initiating private conversations with these individuals. Disregarding someone's clearly stated DM preferences constitutes harassment and will be addressed accordingly.
No Catfishing, impersonating other people, or alt-accounts.
Authenticity builds trust within our community. Using multiple accounts, impersonating others, misrepresenting yourself, or engaging in suspicious identity practices undermines this foundation. Members reported for potential catfishing may be asked to verify their identity through appropriate means. Those unable to provide verification will be removed from the server. If you suspect catfishing, please submit evidence to the MogBot.
Use channels as intended and keep NSFW content in appropriate channels.
Respect our community structure by posting content in its designated location. While this is an adult server, explicit material must remain exclusively within NSFW channels. Acceptable NSFW content in the NSFW channels includes artistic/animated content only. Unacceptable content includes real-life pornography/nudes, loli/shota or any pornographic material depicting or resembling underage people, hyperrealistic art, illegal activity, pedophilia, piracy, or solicitation of explicit content. Do not ask for nudes from members or share any nudes in the server.
Sensitive content must be properly marked.
When discussing challenging topics, use content warnings (CW or TW) and spoiler tags to help members make informed choices about engagement. Sensitive subjects include addiction, death, trauma, self-harm, serious injuries, and other potentially distressing content. Remember we are not mental health professionals - some extreme topics may require external support rather than server discussion. Political discussions are prohibited in all channels to maintain our inclusive environment.
Relationships must be openly disclosed.
Transparency prevents misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Members in committed relationships must display the Taken tag to clearly indicate their status. Those practicing or seeking non-monogamous relationships must both use appropriate tags (Non-monogamous and/or Taken) and include this information in their profile for complete clarity. Honesty about relationship status shows respect for everyone in our community.
Have appropriate profile elements.
All profile components (nickname, picture, banner, status) must remain SFW and appropriate for general viewing. Nicknames require at least 3 consecutive characters typeable on a standard QWERTY keyboard to enable proper moderation and member communication. Failure to comply with these standards after staff notification will result in administrative changes to your profile and potential warnings.
Follow Discord Terms of Service.
As members of both our server and the broader Discord platform, everyone must adhere to Discord's official Terms of Service and Community Guidelines. Violations may result in removal from our server and potential reporting to Discord. This includes sharing illegal content, promoting harmful activities, or engaging in cross-platform harassment.
Final note.
Again, this list is not exhaustive; staff will have the final say in the interpretation of these rules. Any rules are also subject to change based on feedback and future developments.